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About
Money
About our
Approach to Money & Requests for Financial Assistance
(adapted from BayNVC.org)
We hope that everyone
interested in our classes will read this document, whether you plan to
contribute within the sliding scale or not. This gives us hope for fuller
partnership in holding all of our needs, yours and ours, and for growth -
individually and collectively - around this very vital aspect of our
interdependence. If you have
questions that are not answered here, we look forward to hearing
them.
Q: What is Our Approach to
Money?
A: Our consciousness in
using NVC is that money is a "strategy" to meet needs. When we offer classes, we meet a variety
of our own needs, including needs for contribution, meaning, connection, and
growth. We're also seeking to meet
our need for support of our livelihoods through teaching NVC. That way we can contribute most of our
time and energy to our teaching without seeking other work to sustain ourselves
and our families. Hoping to meet
these needs, we ask that each person contribute the most they can.
At the
same
time, we have
a deep joy in and commitment to making NVC available to all people, regardless
of their financial means. We are
aware that some people do not approach us with their needs regarding finances
and choose instead not to participate in our programs. We're sad about that, since we're
longing for trust in our commitment and passion for sharing this work
freely. We have chosen to elaborate
our approach to money in detail, with the hope of supporting everyone in
building trust that their needs matter and that we fully wish to include
them. Hoping to live out of trust
and care for all, we ask that each person contribute no more than they are able
to give with peace of mind and joy.
This last request greatly contributes to meeting our need for pleasure in
receiving your gift.
We are excited about this
approach, because we predict that, over time, it will contribute to meeting all
of our needs for learning and for moving toward a society in which everyone's
needs fully matter. At the same
time, we can only continue to offer this if our needs are held with care, and if
each person does their utmost to contribute at the top of their financial
ability.
We hope you will engage
with us in our journey to shift our relationships to money. Our goal is to enable you to consider
the variety of needs that exist within your relationship to money, and to arrive
at an amount that reflects your financial reality, grounded in an awareness of
all the needs you're desiring to meet.
We hope, furthermore, that you engage in this process as an opportunity
to grow in awareness, conscious choice, and trust that everyone's needs can and
do matter.
Q: What are some
questions I can consider in order to determine my
contribution?
A: Below
are some questions that participants in other NVC classes have found useful as
they consider what to contribute and how to hold all needs with care. We hope you will engage with these
questions as part of your process of determining your contribution and the value
of our contribution of NVC training.
• What considerations are
going into your choice about how much to contribute?
• What needs of ours
are you aware of?
• If you contribute more,
will that have an impact on your choices in other areas of your life that are
essential for you? In what way?
• If you contribute less,
what impact will that have on your needs?
• Have you considered
raising funds to cover the program costs or to increase what you are able to
contribute? If yes, what are your plans?
• If you are choosing not
to raise funds and are not able to cover the program costs, what needs are you
attending to by making this choice? Would your choice change if we could offer
you more support with strategies for fundraising?
Q: How do your sliding scales
work?
A: We offer sliding-scales in order to create a wider comfort zone
for contribution. We offer the low
end of our sliding scale to support people who are struggling financially, and
who otherwise might not be able to attend.
For most people, we are hoping for contributions around the middle of the
scale, which is set to cover our anticipated costs, including our investments of
time and energy. If everyone paid
at the low end of the scale, this would not be sustainable for
us.
Q: It's not sustainable for me to make the financial contributions
that are requested. What are my
options?
A: There are four main options you can
consider:
1) Extended payment plan
2) Volunteering time and skills
3) Tuition scholarships
4) Fundraising
Q: How does a volunteering (or work exchange) plan
work?
A: There are several aspects to answering this question. At the outset, we want to emphasize
that, while we are grateful to receive offers of your time, we only want people
to make such agreements if they are connected with a desire to contribute to us
in this way. For this reason, we
prefer to speak of volunteering rather than exchanging - we want to move out of
the paradigm of exchange and into the paradigm of giving from the heart. For this reason, too, we embrace offers
of volunteering from ALL - those who pay below, within, or above our requested
amounts.
We generally want to receive as much time as you are comfortable
and happy to give - not more.
Depending on the type of program you are participating in, volunteer
arrangements can range from short, one-time stints to concentrated amounts of
time for special projects, to longer-term and more regular agreements (for
example, to support administrative work at the office).
Types of volunteer opportunity might include administrative
work (making copies, data entry, etc.), graphic design, working on word and
excel documents, organizing events, and fundraising.